Be careful with your words.. Once they are said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten.

Selamat Tahun Baru Cina 2020

Selamat Tahun Baru Cina 2020

It is right frame of your mind, your state of mind, your mindset and emotion. It is a game of choice as well as decision making and your educated guess.

By the same token there’s really nothing that you can guess at that you know nothing about.

The quality of our lives is the sum of decision quality plus luck and our decision will also be heavily influenced by randomness.

An expert in any field will have an advantage over a rookie. But neither the veteran nor the rookie can be sure what the next flip will look like. The veteran will just have a better guess.

If we misrepresent the world at the extremes of right and wrong, with no shades of grey in between, our ability to make good choices—choices about how we are supposed to be allocating our resources, what kind of decisions we are supposed to be making, and what kind of actions we are supposed to be taking—will suffer.

Decisions are bets on the future, and they aren’t right or wrong based on whether they turn out well on any particular iteration. An unwanted result doesn’t make our decision wrong if we thought about the alternatives and probabilities in advance and allocated our resources accordingly.

Our Golden Years

Do plan for our own retirement, don't rely on our children to take care of our retirement. We had already walked through most of our journey in life, there are still a lot of new things to learn through out the journey.

It is our own interest that we enjoy our retirement years. Better if we could utilize and enjoy everything that we had saved before we die. Don't let our wealth become worthless to us.

"Barnacles"

It's good for people who are in secure enough position that a few blokes envy and hate them. But some blokes really depend on others to survive so much so that "barnacles" have to please the secured persons.

Nature is born, character is built, and personality is developed. If nature is such, then it is not easy to change a person's nature.

Nature is born, character is built, and personality is developed. If nature is such, then it is not easy to change a person's nature.