François de La Rochefoucauld Quotes

Altruism is an illusion - Richard Dawkins

Altruism is an illusion - Richard Dawkins

Biologists, philosophers, sociologists and psychologists have been telling us for some time that there is no such thing as altruism and imply that it is self-interest and not actually the benevolent helping of others.
 

Biologists, sociologists, philosophers and above all, psychologists, have held to the "universal egoism" theory; that all apparent altruism is really selfishness in disguise. Most arguments for altruism are based on ignorance of the underlying reasons for behaving good towards others or are purely semantic in nature, not logical.

The strong know fully well that altruistic behaviour is not what it seems. The weak help others in order to feel powerful and to have a sense of control over others. The strong, or the 'noble', do not delude themselves in this way.

 

Evolutionists have realised that animals and humans both use giving as a form of exertion of power. Dominant animals who give most are also saying they are the most powerful and can afford to give (time, food, etc) to others. The dominant will tend to refuse aid given to them from anyone inferior to them.

“The essence of Zahavi's idea is that advertisements of superiority are authenticated by their cost. Only a genuinely superior individual can afford to advertise the fact by means of a costly gift. Individuals buy success, for examples in attracting mates, through costly demonstrations of superiority, including ostentatious generosity and public-spirit risk-taking.” - "The God Delusion" by Prof. Richard Dawkins (2006)

 

The reality of altruism to have two levels, and most disagreements are between those who hold one definition of altruism, and those who hold another. The two definitions are:

Surface-altruism: 'Altruism' occurs when one animal does something good for another, no matter what the underlying motive was. Altruism exists, therefore, on this shallow, or surface, level.

Motive-altruism: As there are underlying motives to 'altruistic' behaviour, 'altruism' is an illusion (because we often don't know our own ulterior motives, such as kin selection behaviour).

People behave altruistically for a number of selfish reasons. We are programmed genetically to behave in a way conducive to the sociability of the species: This unconscious species-instinct is the closest thing we have to true selfless altruism. In nearly every other conscious sense, altruism is an illusion. We behave well because social good behaviour fires off pleasant neurochemicals in our brains (the pleasure reward), because consciously or unconsciously we want others to see us as a good person (the social reward) or to feel good about ourselves (for pride and self-esteem). Altruism is image and illusion.

Richard Dawkins, the great evolutionary biologist, argues that we should educate people about the true nature of altruism. He is the author of "The Selfish Gene", and says that when we understand our motives better, we are better equipped to behave well, and overcome the ethnically-biased altruism that we are born with.
 

We should educate people about the true nature of altruism and when we understand our motives better, we are better equipped to behave well, and overcome the ethnically-biased altruism that we are born with. - Richard Dawkins
 

 

Reciprocity involves in mutual exchange of gifts, products, services, favours, kindness, money and other types of obligations.

Don't waste our time trying to please and impress people around us.

Don't waste our time trying to please and impress people around us. This isn't an excuse to be an inconsiderate jerk,  but we must put a high value on our time. Learn to say no to people who don't show interest and respect us.

Helping other people is great but it is better to focus on serving the greatest good than simply appealing to the whims and fancy of our friends and family. Don't waste our energies trying to fit other expectations. Set our own dreams, standards and ambitious and make it our highest priority.

Altruism is an illusion but it's not selfish to love ourselves, take care of ourselves and make our happiness a top priority.

Fooling Around

I don't fool myself into believing I have a winning system, best method, tactic, technique, theory, strategy or secret formula!! Lady Luck, fate, lot, chance, fortune, Law of Average, and Randomness always trick me into thinking I have that when I don't.

Everyday Is A New Chapter

Everything in nature is governed by cycles. Every morning we wake up in a different body with a different mind. We are not the same person that we were yesterday, the day before and tomorrow. What happens today will differ from that yesterday, the day before and tomorrow and nothing stays the same in this world. (It doesn't matter who we were a decade ago, a year ago, or even yesterday... what matters is who we are today, and will be tomorrow!)

Every race is unique unto itself, once run never to be run again in the same manner. Each race has its individual merits and each race is a different puzzle.

Nothing is absolute. All things are subjective.

At “Committee Box” level 4 Singapore Turf Club, Hosted by Mr Teng Joo Chee. – Singapore (Kranji) Race Meeting on 03/02/2013